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"Without Embarrassment lays out a complete plan that even the most romantically clueless guy can use to immediately change his luck with women.

I'll show you what it takes to overcome the Toxic Shame that lies at the root of your rejection sensitivity, and teach you how to project the powerful Dominant Male Attitudes that women around the world find irresistible.

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Hey Mike,

Let me be honest, I found your book while casually looking around for ways to improve myself in the department of meeting women. Seeing the cover, I figured that yours was just another one of the gimmicky e-books being hawked by cyber con-artists out there, but I took a chance and bought it anyway.

I felt stupid and, ironically, even a little embarrassed to have ordered it! That is, until I actually started reading it...

Your engaging style drew me in word by word until I felt as if you were one of my best buddies speaking directly to me! The experience was like having the most honest, heart-felt conversation that I'd ever had about women... and all with a close friend. I was blown away!

Throughout the book I kept nodding my head and saying to myself "so that's where I fucked-up with that girl...", or "damn, she did want me to kiss her!"

Over the past month or so, I've gained so much confidence in my life that it actually extends beyond the realm of women... I look everyone in the eye now. Men respect me. Women helplessly smile back at me! My employers even treat me with a new level of respect that I never knew was possible!

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I just read your book, highlighted it, and I am continuing to review it over and over. I can safely say it might be the most important book I've ever read! I feel very empowered and actually have some knowledge and confidence that will help me on my way to overcoming my HEAVY shame!! You are truly a lifesaver, and there was a time in the book where I actually cried because I was so happy to have found this information when I'm still young!

Your book is amazing and I feel like I know you like a brother now because of it. I owe you my life man! :)

Jake

Mike,

I read your stuff and was quite impressed with your 'no bullshit' presentation. So I ordered your two books and after getting to chapter 2 in Without Embarrassment, I've got to say that it's the best piece of work on this subject I've found to date. The whole seduction thing has been a source of mystery for me for most of my life. Sure I've stumbled into a few good relationships and performed just well enough with women to get by -- but I've always been frustrated by the uncontrollable, random aspects of the whole experience.

Man I wish I would have discovered your material when I was 25! I'd go as far as to say your books should be required reading for every high school male in the nation. Can you imagine the outcry from the religious right? Anyway, great piece of work... I'm captivated by every chapter and I consider it money well spent.

James H.
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Capturing a woman's heart can be a highly hit-or-miss proposition, even in the best circumstances. It requires a blend of the man making all the correct signal moves, and the woman allowing events to unfold without throwing up roadblocks at every turn.

Despite the fact that many of us have come to dread it, some type of male-signaling performance is always necessary somewhere along the timeline of this process because everything is still ultimately the woman's choice (sorry, Darwinian imperative) -- and she needs information in order to make that choice.

For men, then, it's all about getting that perfect combination of attitude and appearance -- our so-called Male Display -- working just right for us. It is within this "display" that we advertise the suitability of our genetic heritage for the creation of new life. This is the information women are compelled to seek about us. Make this magic work for yourself and you will create a steady stream of romantic opportunities coming your way that will NOT require a massive display of courage to take advantage of.

And that's really the central focus of my new book... it's a collection of strategies designed to lure women into your world by feeding them the proper romantic signals they crave at every step along the way. And once they get the idea that you understand the game on their terms -- worlds of possibly will begin to open up for you.

Best of all, the romantic skills I teach in SYFT will become more refined as you use them and will continue to serve you for a lifetime as you move through life's phases. These are not just short-term tricks to be used during your "clubbing" years when you have a supporting network of like-minded friends and easy access to single women helping you along.

You'll see that it's a better way -- a REAL way -- to bring beautiful women into your life.

~ Mike Pilinski ~

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No Pollyannas here...

I'll admit I thought it would be impossible for Mike Pilinski to top his amazing Without Embarrassment, a book that brought more awareness into my romantic life than almost anything else I'd ever read before on the subject of men and women. But I found She's Yours For The Taking to be an outstanding companion guide to his first book and would highly recommend it. Mike's handling of the entire subject of attraction and romance is solidly optimistic without being Pollyanna-ish (although it IS hysterically funny in many places!).

And like most of his readers, the author has had his fill of BS "just do it" type pick-up and dating advice and instead approaches things from a former "nerd's perspective" that I found refreshingly easy to relate to.

Like his earlier work, Mike's new book is more than just a lot of "player techniques" -- it's a plan for how best to live your life at its highest level -- the High Status Male level. As a Man! This is everything that I believe our low, LSM fathers never bothered to teach us for some reason.

Sadly, I did not come across any of this seduction stuff until I was 36 years old. As they say, when the pupil is ready the teacher appears -- but I sure wish I would've found something like Mike's terrific books much earlier in my life. What a lifesaver they've been to me so far.

~ Mark Z.

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Mike, you have written an absolute encyclopedia on the best ways to meet and seduce women! This book is twice as good as Without Embarrassment, good as that one was. I'm just starting Part 4 right now, and I can't put the thing down... Pull-tabbing is ingenious!

I've probably made at least a 250% increase in my game, and I'm still not finished with the book yet. If you ever decide to take up skydiving in the Seattle area, I might just have to pay for your first jump! 8-)

~ Erik

For the Discriminating Reader

I think the man intelligent enough to buy Mike's book will especially benefit from his language style and clear, categorical approach to the subject of seduction and gaming women.

You did a great job explaining the push-pull aspect of sequential dates and how they each require a different approach. I think the most valuable gift you present in this book is clarity... clarity on what kind of image you want to present to women, the opportunities to flirt, the types of dates you want to go on, etc. This book seems to really engage the active/planning part of the brain that helps to motivate me. It's much more of an interactive experience than "Without Embarrassment".

The summaries are really nice too. I think having quick pointers for reference is helpful -- not many books of this type pull this off with any real substance. It's usually a bullshit little trifle, as opposed to your great distillations.

I also love the subtleties of the language that you flavor "She's Yours" with -- "hunting for pupils... burning your emotions to a crisp....doing a cold approach....". Very readable.

~ Robert F.

Scoring Young Blonde Dolls

I've read and re-read your books Mike, committing large portions to memory. I noticed that I soon started meeting more desirable women. This was not a coincidence -- it actually seemed easier than before. Yes, there was risk of rejection, but I took it in stride. Anyway, last month I started dating a beautiful, blonde doll, 17 years younger than me. I chose an action-style first date with her (Par 3 golf) and we had a great time. We clicked and have been seeing each other regularly and exclusively since. I can't believe my good fortune! I know this sounds like some kind of paid advertisement...but the fact is, it's true.

The key is, I'm convinced one of the reasons she is attracted to me is that I don't project a "needy" personality any more. I'm not arrogant about things either, I just have confidence and she likes that.

So, thanks for the good work you are doing... I know it helped me. I'm a believer!

Paul S.

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After finishing She's Yours for the Taking I have to say that Mike's book is the most practical real-world discourse on men and relationships that I have read in a while. And, I have read the others and wasted money on their DVD's and CD's, including Mr. cocky-funny and Mr. NLP. The difference? Mike deals in reality... this is not a book full of adolescent fantasies blathering on about how you can have women removing their clothes within 15 minutes of meeting them by following some idiotic magical formula.

Mike's book discusses realistic attitudes and approaches that work on a wide range of women. One of the best things about SYFT is that it applies to all ages -- not just the 18-23 year old male "bimbo set" like a majority of pickup books seem to be targeting. He also schools the reader on how to hold onto the women that you've met... why a woman may have a few dates with a guy and then lose interest in him, etc. Things that go way beyond just the first moment of meeting, and which can leave the typical pickup artist scratching his head wondering what went wrong.

I can say in all honesty that SYFT and his previous book Without Embarrassment have ended my search for effective information on dealing with women. Its all here, presented in Mike's trademark humorous and easy-to-read fashion.

~ Dan Turner

A complete "Operator's Handbook" designed for Dating women!

This book is probably the best thing to come along in years. I found out the hard way that most women are not impressed by self-proclaimed "pickup-artists" walking up to them uninvited with their carefully-rehearsed lines of bullshit like some Scientologist recruiter. What we have here instead is something that can actually be used in the real world...

Parts 1 & 2 of She's Yours deal mostly with psychological issues (our own and those of our "prey") and includes an answer to the question: why do the hottest women act so easily bored and pissy? The answer might surprise you, it certainly did me. And there's a huge section on eye-contact I found extremely valuable!

Part 3 introduces Pull-Tabbing -- an easy, fun way to meet women, as opposed to other methods which employ sheer fucking terror! The beauty of PTing is that you don't have to be perfect at the technique to pull it off -- if you skip or miss a few steps, you can still do okay. This is definitely not the case with the dreck put forth by the NLP-hypnosis crowd where you need to memorize dozens of patterns and have them ready to pour out at the drop of a hat. Some women are even beginning to wise up to that crap... I overheard a couple of them laughing about it at the club! This section also includes a review of the famous "handshake trick" from Without Embarrassment.

Parts 4 & 5 on dating and sexing her read almost like a reference manual that you can refer to right before that particular step is about to happen. Let's see, second date... what does the book say to do? Kind of like that. Loads of land mines that she could trip you up with are all explained so that you will know how to respond when she tries to test you. Brilliant! Ways to stay out of the dreaded "friends zone"... how to maximize the chances of her staying around for an LTR if that's what you want, etc. There's even a section about finding the ideal sexual partner for you. Finally, a bit of positive-thinking philosophical advice at the end that rounds out what is, in my maybe-not-so-humble opinion, a book that every man over the age of 21 should be required to read!

Mike, you have made the entire subject of women too friggin'
easy for us!

~ Eric B.

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